There’s something extraordinary about knowing yourself—not just on the surface, but on a soul-deep level.
Walking the Tan Track in Melbourne early one morning with my sister Anne, I had a moment of sudden clarity.
As we chatted about life, I found myself reflecting on my endless appetite for learning—always enrolling in another training, investing in coaching, saying yes to new programs. I used to judge myself for this. Sometimes I’d spend money that didn’t feel “justified.” There were times I hadn’t even implemented everything I’d learned. And I’d carry shame about that.
But in that moment, something shifted.
Discovering My Strengths (And Why They Mattered)
When I took the Clifton Strengths assessment, I discovered that three of my top strengths were:
Learner Intellection Input
And suddenly, it all made sense.
I learn because I love learning. Not because I need to “use” it all. Learning feeds me—intellectually, emotionally, and energetically. It becomes part of my inner library. I realised that even if I didn’t “do” something with every piece of training, it still became a resource I could draw from when supporting my clients.
Speaking this aloud to my sister gave me permission to let go of the judgement I’d been holding. I could see myself with new eyes.
You Are One of a Kind (And That’s Not Just a Cliché))
Did you know that out of 34 million Clifton Strengths assessments, no two are alike?
You are utterly unique—just like your fingerprints, your experiences, your heart.
Even your challenges and quirks are part of what makes you magical.
We don’t question the uniqueness of our pets, our children, or even snowflakes… so why do we doubt it in ourselves?
What Self-Discovery Taught Me
As a heart-led woman, I’ve always been drawn to personal growth. Over the years, I’ve explored many tools to understand myself more deeply:
Astrology I am a curious Gemini
Numerology (Life Path 9)
You are one of a kind. Embrace it.
Your uniqueness isn’t something to hide—
it’s the very gift you came here to share.
Why Embracing Your Strengths Builds Confidence
When you begin to understand yourself more deeply, shame starts to dissolve. You stop comparing yourself to others and start celebrating the truth of who you are.
For me, self-awareness became a doorway to self-worth.
Instead of seeing flaws, I saw patterns.
Instead of feeling “too much,” I felt powerful.
Instead of hiding, I softened into visibility.
I began trusting my strengths—not just intellectually, but energetically. It gave me courage to live and work in a way that aligned with my natural design.
And that changed everything
It seems to me that fitting in makes me average, and ordinary people rarely do extraordinary things.
The Truth About Being Different
Let’s be honest—being different can feel uncomfortable.
But fitting in? That just makes you average. And the world doesn’t need more average. It needs you.
You are here for something meaningful. Your uniqueness is not a liability—it’s your lighthouse. Your gifts, your voice, your way of doing things… they’re exactly what the world is waiting for.
The more I owned this truth, the more creative I became. I found myself solving problems differently, seeing new possibilities, attracting clients who resonated with my authentic self.
Self-Worth Is the Key to Receiving
Here’s something I’ve learned through both experience and coaching hundreds of women:
🧡 When you value yourself, you allow yourself to receive.
Not just money, but also compliments, rest, appreciation, pleasure, respect, and yes—abundance.
And when you know your worth, you stop trying to prove it.
You simply live it.
Reflective Prompts for You
Take a moment to sit with these questions:
✨ What are some of my unique strengths or qualities that others admire in me?
✨ Where might I be judging myself for how I naturally operate?
✨ How could embracing my true self shift how I show up, receive, or contribute?
You Don’t Have to Keep Hiding Your Light
If this resonates and you feel like you’ve been quietly holding yourself back—even though deep down you’re meant for more—I’d love to invite you to take the next step.
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It’s time to stop fixing yourself and start seeing yourself.
You are worthy. You are enough.
You are already the masterpiece.
With love,
Lauren x
